I am supposed not to write anything about you. At least, I stopped. But today, I heard a classic and cheesy love song that reminded me of you, and suddenly, I couldn't help myself but become emotional.
Together but Never Dated
2021. I was waiting patiently at our agreed time while hesitant if you'd show up. I was trying hard to convince myself that it was just you, and not the guy who invited me for a particular event nor the man whom I kissed in the middle of the crowd. Well, I could still remember how you managed to bring me home no matter how drunk I was or how embarrassed you were.
"Ayaw palabi, Gel, ha," I heard you whispered to me before I took a sip from each glass.. - 2017" |
The "what if's" in 2013...
Contemplating what we have now and the ones in the past, I dug more dates that I thought could be significant in our meeting. It led me to the year 2013. It was at that time when we were vying for a title. Needless to say, you won! I was still a newbie blogger compared to you but I was already your fan!
"Still my favorite capture from you - Solaire Hotel, Manila" |
Anyway, it took several years when I finally saw you in person. With all confidence I could muster, I signed up for a blogging event because you were there. Then, I braved the big waves from Olango Island and crossed the trench to see you. You couldn't imagine how contented I was to have met you. That year was 2016.
A New Beginning and the Coloring Book
When I resigned from my previous job, you sent me a message if I'd give the company you were working at a try. Although I was doubtful, I sent my resume anyway, and I was lucky enough to be accepted. We became colleagues for months!
"This holds so much inspiration until now. Thank you!" |
"I felt awkward really...But thanks to this photo." |
Despite the fact that we were colleagues, you never set your eyes on me. I felt that no matter how I wanted to talk to you more, you were beyond reach. You were that star that I continued to look up to. In a karaoke place with our workmates, I knew that the songs you were singing weren't intended for me. However, I remained your loyal fan.
Destiny and Love
2016. Once you asked me about love while driving me home (we were at the middle of the bridge). You also asked if I believe in destiny during an event (to think it was your first invitation). Those questions confused me, and created a tremendous dilemma. Where were you leading me at those times? The fan girl in me wanted to believe a love story but I decided to suppress it because I couldn't be assuming.
2021. It was that same scenario on the bridge while we were on our way to a charity work. I smiled at the recollection of that evening in 2016. It dawned in me how you told me to hold you tight because you were afraid I might fall or go to sleep (I was drunk).
The sea breeze lightened my mood that Sunday morning. Although I was not holding you tight anymore, I enjoyed our trivial conversation. We never had this talk whenever I was with you before. But now, I am free to express myself.
Social Development Work
Never would I imagine myself that I have the chance to be with you - up-close and personal and enjoying the weekend ride. I am still very hesitant to ask you for a favor even though you told me that you are willing to help me. Know that I appreciated that gesture because undeniably, I need someone to aid me with my projects.
"This was our last meeting before I left for General Santos City in 2019. Thanks for this photo again." |
Hi, Angel,I think this is the best post I've read from you so far. I can see your personality and humanness. It's the kind of post that keeps people like me reading. I know that there is constantly a battle between heart and mind when one writes for a blog. Since you are not writing for work, unlike me, let your heart win. Write everything that the heart wants to express.
ReplyDeleteHello, Maam Josil,
DeleteThank you, Maam. This is my first time writing about someone I dearly admire for almost decade. I was so young in blogging then, and this blogger has been my constant inspiration to write. I am glad I was able to not only saw him but also spent time with him.
This is the most heartful blog that I have ever read in your siye Anj. It was well narrated and compose and I can see your heart is full of positivity during those days up until now
ReplyDeleteMy, what an intriguing love letter this is! For whoever this person might be, you are very lucky. I would be stunned if someone wrote a blog about me. It's like having a glimpse of a romantic story waiting to unfold...
ReplyDeleteNice to see this side of you. This is so sweet and wholesome to the one you are writing for.
ReplyDelete-MJ
I hope you shared this with Ian. What a lovely tribute. Yes, totally agree, Ian is such a generous person.
ReplyDeleteSorry to drop the bomb, Margaux but this is someone else. I know the person who took that photo.
DeleteSo happy for you, Gel. I hope he’s reading. Should I share?
Haha..yaw lang Yan..kahibaw na bitaw ka nga unrequited ni..
DeleteBeing a fangirl is no small feat! Here's hoping you get to do more with your fangirling in the future!
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